ADOPTION STORY: They Don’t Tell You This Part of Adoption… and It Changes Everything

Bev also shares the part people do not always say out loud, adoption often begins with loss. From a disrupted placement early on, to the moment Carlito came into our lives in November 2021, we reflect on faith, resilience, and what it looks like to grow a family with honesty and love. We also get practical about open adoption, telling your child their story early, the realities and cost of private adoption, foster care versus private adoption, and the racial dynamics families may face along the way. If you are considering adoption, parenting solo, or building a family in a non-traditional way, pull up a chair. You are not alone.

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00:00 Adoption Begins With Loss: The Emotional Reality 01:18 Meet the Hosts: Setting Up the Adoption Conversation 01:55 Bev’s Path to Adoption as a Single Mom 03:34 The Process: Agencies, Profiles & Feeling Exposed 05:39 Disrupted Adoption: Three Days With Baby Rose 07:11 Carlito Arrives: Thanksgiving 2021 & Gratitude 09:01 Open Hands & Open Hearts: Birth-Mom Choices and Letting Go 11:52 Carolyn’s Role: Co-Parenting, Village Support & Faith 16:37 What Surprised Them: Cost, Industry, and Racial Bias 21:13 Looking Ahead: More Adoption, Open Adoption & Hard “No” Decisions 25:38 Making the Hard Call: Choosing the Right Adoption Match 26:22 When Adoption Disrupts: Rehoming, Attachment & What You Can Handle 28:20 What Makes a Great Adoptive Parent: Openness, Boundaries & Learning 29:36 Transracial Adoption Done Right: Culture, Community & Hair Care 32:01 What We’re Getting Right as Moms (and What We’re Still Learning) 34:39 School Choices & Identity: Where Can Carlito Fully Be Himself? 37:15 Discipline, Patience & the ‘Let Them’ Parenting Mindset 39:45 Telling the Adoption Story: Openness, Age-Appropriate Truth & Love 42:17 Final Advice + Bigger Questions: It’s Never Too Late & Supporting Families 49:36 Wrap-Up: Expect a Miracle (and Building Your Village)